Thinking About Surrogacy? Here’s What You Should Know About Surrogacy Requirements & More

Choosing to become a gestational surrogate is a rewarding and life-changing decision, and at Surrogacy.com, we’re here to make sure you feel fully supported at every stage. Whether you’re just starting to explore surrogacy or ready to take the next step, our experienced team provides the resources and guidance to make your journey smooth, safe, and successful.  

In this blog post, we’ll walk through the key parts of the surrogacy journey, from initial requirements to the support you’ll receive along the way. Ready to learn more? 

Are You Eligible? Surrogate Requirements 

Let’s start with a review of the main requirements for becoming a gestational surrogate. These qualifications ensure your safety and the best possible experience for everyone involved.  

Here’s a quick overview: 

• Age Range: Surrogates are typically between 21 and 42 years old. 

• Health & Pregnancy History: You’ll need at least one successful pregnancy and delivery with no major complications. 

• Healthy Lifestyle: A nonsmoking, drug-free lifestyle is a requirement to support a safe pregnancy and a healthy environment for the baby. 

Meeting these requirements (and a few others) is the first step. If you qualify, you may be in a great position to begin your journey as a surrogate. 

Your Surrogacy Support System 

We know how important a support system is during your surrogacy journey. We’ll hook you up with a surrogacy agency that has a team of dedicated professionals to help you every step of the way, including: 

• Social Workers: Compassionate social workers can answer your questions, offer guidance, and provide support to make sure you feel confident and cared for. 

• Legal Experts: Surrogacy laws vary by state, so your agency’s legal team ensures you and the intended parents have every detail covered, giving you peace of mind. 

• Financial Advisors: From compensation to expenses, your surrogacy agency’s financial advisors can address your questions so you can focus on a smooth journey. 

With these experts on your side, you’ll have a network of support, making sure that your experience is as informed, safe, and positive as possible. 

Understand the Screening Process 

The screening process is essential to confirm that surrogacy is a good fit for you. Here’s what it involves: 

• Medical Screenings: Fertility specialists will assess your health, medical history, and ability to carry a safe pregnancy, giving you confidence in your readiness. 

• Psychological Assessment: Surrogacy is a big commitment, both physically and emotionally. Our psychological screenings help you feel prepared, supported, and ready to take on this role. 

• Background Check: This step helps establish trust with the intended parents and reassures everyone that you are prepared for this unique experience. 

These screenings are designed to ensure your comfort and preparedness. With each step, you’ll be guided by professionals who can answer all your questions. 

The Surrogacy Journey: Step by Step 

Becoming a surrogate is a process with several stages, each with unique milestones to look forward to. Here’s an overview of what to expect along the way: 

• Application & Matching: After applying, your agency will carefully match you with intended parents who share your values, expectations, and communication style. 

• Medical Appointments & Embryo Transfer: Once matched, you’ll begin a series of appointments for embryo transfer, working with fertility experts and receiving plenty of support. 

• Pregnancy Journey: As you embark on the pregnancy, you’ll have regular check-ins with your team, ensuring you feel comfortable and well-supported. 

• Delivery & Aftercare: After delivery, we invite and encourage you to stay connected to our surrogacy community for social support, help through your “fourth trimester,” and future guidance. 

Each phase is designed to provide support, ensure safety, and keep you informed and comfortable as you take each new step. 

Join a Community of Surrogates 

With Surrogacy.com, you’re supported by a unique network of surrogates and advocates dedicated to making your journey meaningful and fulfilling. Our role is to provide a nurturing environment where surrogates can connect, share experiences, and receive valuable advice from those who’ve walked this path before. The Surrogacy.com community includes current and former surrogates who offer insights, celebrate milestones, and help you navigate both the practical and emotional aspects of surrogacy. 

We’re here at every step to support your journey alongside a partner agency that fits your needs. Whether you have questions about IVF, want book recommendations to help explain surrogacy to your own children, or need a listening ear, we make sure you feel connected and confident. Our team members advocate for your best interests so you can focus on enjoying the experience and creating a family’s dream. 

If you’re ready to take the next step, fill out our surrogacy compatibility form. Let us help you make a meaningful difference in another family's life.  

To learn more, check out our Surrogacy FAQs.